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October is widely recognized as Breast Cancer Awareness Month — a time to shine a light on one of the most common cancers affecting women across the globe. For many, it’s also a reminder of courage, survival, and the importance of early detection.
As parents, we often pour our energy into caring for our families — juggling school runs, work commitments, and endless to-do lists — while putting our own health on the back burner. But caring for yourself is not selfish; it’s one of the greatest gifts you can give your loved ones.
Breast cancer occurs when cells in the breast grow uncontrollably. These cells often form a tumor that can be felt as a lump or seen on an X-ray. While breast cancer mainly affects women, men can also develop it, though it’s much rarer.
According to the World Health Organization (WHO), one in eight women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in her lifetime. Yet, when detected early, survival rates can be as high as 90%. That’s why awareness and proactive health checks make all the difference.
Early detection remains the most effective weapon against breast cancer. It doesn’t just save lives — it allows for more treatment options and a better quality of life after recovery.

Breast cancer doesn’t discriminate, but some factors can increase one’s risk. These include:
It’s important to note that some people develop breast cancer with no obvious risk factors — which is why awareness and routine checks are so vital.
Detecting breast cancer early gives doctors the best chance to treat it successfully before it spreads. There are three main ways to catch it early:
All three methods complement one another — but it all starts with being aware of your own body.
A breast self-exam is a simple, cost-free way to check your breasts for changes. It should be done once a month, ideally a few days after your period ends when breasts are least likely to be swollen or tender. For those who no longer menstruate, choose a consistent day each month.
Here’s a step-by-step guide:
Stand straight with your shoulders back and arms on your hips. Look for:
Repeat this step with your arms raised overhead and again while pressing your palms together in front of you.
Many women find it easiest to do this step in the shower, as wet skin makes movement smoother. Use the pads of your three middle fingers, moving in small circular motions.

When lying flat, the breast tissue spreads out, making it easier to feel small changes. Place a pillow under your right shoulder and your right arm behind your head. Use your left hand to examine your right breast in the same circular motion as above. Repeat on the other side.
If you notice a lump, thickening, or any unusual change, don’t panic. Most breast changes are not cancerous — they could be due to hormonal changes, infections, or benign cysts. However, it’s essential to see a doctor promptly for evaluation.
Breast cancer awareness should be a family conversation. Encourage your partner, sisters, and even teenage daughters to learn about self-examinations and the importance of early detection. Fathers can also play a role by supporting their spouses and daughters to prioritize screening.
If you have a family history of breast or ovarian cancer, talk to your healthcare provider about genetic testing or earlier mammograms.
While not all cases can be prevented, maintaining a healthy lifestyle can lower your risk:

These habits not only reduce cancer risk but also improve your overall wellbeing — helping you stay strong for your family.
Breast cancer is not a death sentence when caught early. It’s a battle that can be won with awareness, courage, and timely action. As parents, we often teach our children to pay attention, speak up, and take responsibility — we must do the same for our own health.
So, take a moment this month to check yourself, schedule that screening, and encourage others to do the same. Your awareness could save your life — or the life of someone you love.
Reset is for anyone who knows the strain of balancing life on the tightrope of being everything to everyone.

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