Men’s Mental HealthAwareness Month is this June, a crucial time to spotlight an often-overlooked issue: the emotional and psychological well-being of men. In many societies, men are raised with the idea that they must be strong, stoic, and unshakable pillars of their families and communities. While resilience is admirable, this expectation often silences emotional expression and discourages men from seeking help when they are struggling. As a result, many men suffer in silence, and Men’s mental health issues go undaddressed which can ripple into their families, relationships, and work lives.
The Unspoken Struggles of Men’s Mental Health
Mental health challenges do not discriminate. Depression, anxiety, burnout, and trauma can affect anyone, regardless of gender. However, research shows that Men’s mental health struggles are less likely to acknowledged and they are less likely to seek support. According to the World Health Organization, men are significantly less likely than women to receive mental health treatment—even when they show symptoms of distress. This silence can have devastating consequences, contributing to higher suicide rates among men compared to women globally.
One of the primary reasons men avoid speaking up is stigma. From a young age, boys are often told to “man up,” “tough it out,” or “don’t cry.” Emotional expression is wrongly equated with weakness, while suffering in silence is seen as a badge of honor. But the truth is, staying silent about mental health struggles does not make one stronger—it makes the burden heavier and the path lonelier.
Men’s Mental Health and The Impact on Families
When men do not address their mental health, the effects often extend beyond themselves. Families can feel the weight of unresolved emotional struggles. Irritability, withdrawal, and communication breakdowns can strain relationships and affect the emotional safety of the home environment.
Children, especially sons, often model what they see. If a father avoids emotional conversations, suppresses his feelings, or uses unhealthy coping mechanisms like alcohol or aggression, children may grow up thinking this is normal. This perpetuates a harmful cycle of silence and stigma across generations.
Partners may also feel isolated or unsure of how to help. When emotional walls go up, intimacy and connection suffer. In extreme cases, untreated mental health issues can lead to financial difficulties, domestic conflicts, or breakdowns in trust—further emphasizing the need for early intervention and open communication.
Speaking Up Is a Sign of Strength
The narrative must shift: speaking up is not weakness; it’s courage. Admitting you need help takes strength. Talking about emotions, fears, or struggles is not a failure of masculinity—it is a reaffirmation of humanity.
Fortunately, the world is beginning to listen. Celebrities, athletes, and public figures are increasingly opening up about their mental health journeys, helping to normalize these conversations. But true change must happen at the community and household level. Men need safe spaces—free of judgment—where they can share, process, and heal.
Support can come in many forms: talking to a trusted friend, joining a men’s support group, seeking counseling, or simply journaling feelings. The first step is acknowledging that mental health matters and it’s okay to not be okay.
Tips for Men During Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month
Check in with yourself – Take time to ask yourself how you’re feeling emotionally, not just physically. Stress and anxiety often show up as fatigue, sleep issues, or irritability.
Talk to someone you trust – Whether it’s a friend, spouse, mentor, or counselor, find someone to open up to. Honest conversations can be a turning point.
Engage in stress-reducing activities – Exercise, hobbies, prayer or meditation, and time in nature can help regulate emotions and reduce mental strain.
Educate yourself – Read about mental health, listen to podcasts, or attend a workshop. Knowledge empowers action.
Break the cycle – If you’re a father or mentor, model vulnerability and openness. Teach boys that emotions are human and healthy.
The Role of Society
We all have a part to play. Employers can create mentally healthy workplaces with employee assistance programs and mental health days. Faith-based groups, schools, and social clubs can host talks and support sessions tailored for men. Partners and loved ones can encourage non-judgmental dialogue, reminding the men in their lives that they are not alone.
Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month is not just about raising awareness—it’s about changing lives. It’s a reminder that men deserve the same compassion, support, and care as anyone else. When men speak up, they take the first step toward healing, not only for themselves but for their families as well. Let’s build a world where vulnerability is valued, help is accessible, and mental health is a shared priority for all.
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